Where the Shadow Self Lives

The imposing James M. Castle home in Stillwater, MN, built in 1872. See more: https://www.oldhousedreams.com/2019/05/23/1872-stillwater-mn/ This is the house where I imagine that my alter ego Aurora lives. Isn’t it sheer Gothic Revival perfection? You could come...

The Talisman and the Tool

Weekends are filled with errands — that’s normal. But this weekend, I had a less-than-normal mission on my to-do list. “Find totem,” the item read. That’s because, to activate an alter ego, many performers and athletes use a totem that...

Why You Need to Identify with a Superhero

Embed from Getty Images Wearing the mask of a superhero can give you the distance you need between your ordinary self and the self you aspire to be. As mom of two little boys, I found myself on a first-name basis with a lot of superheroes (also, construction...

All the World’s a Stage

Every expectation we fill in life can be seen as a show on a stage. Photo: Matthew Wordell Would you consider yourself a performer? You may not be a performer in the same context as Prince, but I’d have to agree that we each play a role on various stages in the...

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